What men worry about in bed!

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You and your boyfriend/ new husband are planning on having sex for the first time and you’re worried about being able to satisfy him. Well, you are not alone. He has his own set of sex stressors too. Here are five possible worries in his head:

Pleasing you

He wants to make sure you have a good time in bed, after all, if you’ve done the deed before, you will be comparing him with your ex and he doesn’t want to come up short. And even if it’s your first time, he doesn’t want to be the guy who puts you off sex! Or at least think it’s not worth the effort. So, even though he has done it many times before he wants to be great with you.

Premature pressures!

It could all end too early too. If he reaches climax too soon, you won’t be a happy person. He’s hoping that this won’t happen too often, because he doesn’t want to be labeled selfish or worse, inadequate. He wants to keep you happy too.

Size matters?

He has heard it doesn’t, but what if he is wrong? He doesn’t want to leave you dissatisfied. “Size does not matter. It is the way you do it that makes all the difference,” explains Dr Hemant Kumar, a sexologist.

Erection woes

Foreplay has been going on for way too long as far as you are concerned. You want to speed things up but he just can’t get it up! This can be one of his worst nightmares. In case you plan to have sex, make sure your partner is relaxed and comfortable.

Faking it

According Dr Kumar, it is not easy to tell when a woman is faking an orgasm. However, no man would appreciate you lying to him about your (s)experience with him. If you didn’t enjoy it, tell him what he could do to make things better the next time. Now that you know his worries, share yours with him, and gear up for a wild undercover romp!