Soulmate Series: Love Happens Out of the Blue

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Time and time again I meet the 'single and looking' young woman. Keen to get married, probably under pressure from home as well, this young soul almost always asks, "When will I find Mr Right?"

And my answer is always "When you stop looking". By stop looking I don't mean giving up. I mean transferring the energies of searching outside yourself to inside you. By working on your inner self, loving yourself and taking care of your health and fitness, you raise your loving vibrations. And nothing attracts a soulmate more than a woman confident in herself and her abilities and comfortable with herself. Someone who is a perfect candidate for a soulmate herself.

The minute you let go of your ardent desire for a soulmate, he or she appears. Sometimes it turns out to be someone you've known for a long time but just weren't ready to recognise the soul connection. And sometimes they do appear from out of the blue.

A dancer once told me "I was getting over a bad relationship that had lasted 7 years. I couldn't stand the thought of trusting another man. And the last thing I wanted was another relationship. So I focused on my dance and travel. And almost as if the Universe wanted me to get over my distrust of men, this guy appeared at my doorstep."

'Turn a different corner and we never would have met' sings George Michael, but with soulmates, there is no different corner to turn. What appears to be out of the blue or accidental, is actually destined or prewritten in the stars. Many believe Divine Intelligence plays a part in deciding the date, time and location the two of you are to bump into each other and fall in love. Filmi maybe, but not unreal. Ask a million soulmates who've found each other and almost all of them will recount bizarre stories of meeting one another and falling in love. And almost all of them were not looking or had given up their search for their soulmates. Love happened.