So much to do, so little time to do it all. 24 hours in a day just doesn’t cut it anymore. Rushing to work just to get in on time, trying to meet deadlines, dropping the kids off to school, getting caught up in traffic on your way back home!
And it doesn’t get any better by the time you get home - there’s dinner that has to be taken care off, checking over the kid’s homework...
Where’s the time for romance or sex anymore you ask? Especially when the entire week is so hectic. It’s just sex after all, right? Big deal, it can wait! Wrong!! Not keeping aside time for sex can create problems in the marriage in the long run.
Sex and romance can do wonders in a relationship as long as you start making it a priority as well.
Don’t carry work home
Unless it’s extremely important and urgent then there’s no excuse to bring your work home. Office time should be finished with at office itself. Home should be a place to unwind and relax. Instead use the time to talk to your partner, make dinner together or watch a movie. And most importantly don’t talk about work during that ‘together time.’ Even just an hour set aside to spend with your partner can make a difference.
Set a day in a week aside
It’s extremely important to spend quality time with each other regardless of however busy the week is. Set aside one day in a week to have fun with your partner. It can be any day in the week or keep changing the day so it doesn’t become predictable and do different things every week. Go bowling, book an appointment at the spa for the both of you, go out for a romantic dinner and after all that, finish the day off with a love making session.
Let the kids have a day off once in a while
It’s a known fact that your love and sex life can become non existent especially with the kids to handle. Let the kids go to their friend’s place for a sleepover, or drop them off at the mall or let them spend the day with your parents. That way the two of you will get the house to yourselves to do whatever you please. Let this be your kinky day and do what you’d never get to do on normal days. Since you can’t have this amount of time everyday then make as much use of it as you can.
Get up half an hour early
Sacrifices always have to be made in a relationship. If both of your work schedules clash with each others then it’s time to do something about it, instead of letting it be. If he/you leave for work before the other does, then one of you could get up earlier and the both of you can spend that time cuddling or eating breakfast together. Whatever the case, try adjusting to each other’s timings.
All work and no play, is a no-no
Even if the two of you are busy at work, a few minutes to spare for each other are not a big deal. Believe it or not, taking a break and talking to your spouse can help you relieve stress. Send messages to each other; it shows that you’re thinking of him/her. If you’re feeling naughty, then why not send a naughty picture or message hinting what you want to do when he gets home.
How would you make time for your partner and yourself? Leave us a comment and let us know. Don’t bring work home Keep atleast a day off in a week..any day so it doesn’t turn monotonous Sex take stress away.
And it doesn’t get any better by the time you get home - there’s dinner that has to be taken care off, checking over the kid’s homework...
Where’s the time for romance or sex anymore you ask? Especially when the entire week is so hectic. It’s just sex after all, right? Big deal, it can wait! Wrong!! Not keeping aside time for sex can create problems in the marriage in the long run.
Sex and romance can do wonders in a relationship as long as you start making it a priority as well.
Don’t carry work home
Unless it’s extremely important and urgent then there’s no excuse to bring your work home. Office time should be finished with at office itself. Home should be a place to unwind and relax. Instead use the time to talk to your partner, make dinner together or watch a movie. And most importantly don’t talk about work during that ‘together time.’ Even just an hour set aside to spend with your partner can make a difference.
Set a day in a week aside
It’s extremely important to spend quality time with each other regardless of however busy the week is. Set aside one day in a week to have fun with your partner. It can be any day in the week or keep changing the day so it doesn’t become predictable and do different things every week. Go bowling, book an appointment at the spa for the both of you, go out for a romantic dinner and after all that, finish the day off with a love making session.
Let the kids have a day off once in a while
It’s a known fact that your love and sex life can become non existent especially with the kids to handle. Let the kids go to their friend’s place for a sleepover, or drop them off at the mall or let them spend the day with your parents. That way the two of you will get the house to yourselves to do whatever you please. Let this be your kinky day and do what you’d never get to do on normal days. Since you can’t have this amount of time everyday then make as much use of it as you can.
Get up half an hour early
Sacrifices always have to be made in a relationship. If both of your work schedules clash with each others then it’s time to do something about it, instead of letting it be. If he/you leave for work before the other does, then one of you could get up earlier and the both of you can spend that time cuddling or eating breakfast together. Whatever the case, try adjusting to each other’s timings.
All work and no play, is a no-no
Even if the two of you are busy at work, a few minutes to spare for each other are not a big deal. Believe it or not, taking a break and talking to your spouse can help you relieve stress. Send messages to each other; it shows that you’re thinking of him/her. If you’re feeling naughty, then why not send a naughty picture or message hinting what you want to do when he gets home.
How would you make time for your partner and yourself? Leave us a comment and let us know. Don’t bring work home Keep atleast a day off in a week..any day so it doesn’t turn monotonous Sex take stress away.
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